Subtle Ways People Show You Who They Really Are — And Why You Should Believe Them
31 Subtle Ways People Show You Who They Really Are — And Why You Should Believe Them Brianna Wiest 1. When a friend seems to have something negative to say about everyone they know, believe that they are treating you the same way behind your back — chances are, you’re probably not the outlier. 2. When someone tells you that they “aren’t looking for a relationship” right now, believe them, because that’s pretty much always how people rationalize not wanting to commit to someone who seems like they should be right. 3. If someone cares more about what could be on their résumé more than they do their eulogy, believe they care more about how others see them than how they make others feel. 4. If someone immediately denies criticism without even considering that the claim could be true, believe that at some level, they are sure it is. 5. When someone makes a passive aggressive comment that strikes you as though it would be offensive if it wasn’t laughed off, believe that it ...